If your partner is insecure and having trust issues, instead of getting upset and calling it their issue or making it about some problem with them, try to ask what you can do to help.
We don't work on our insecurities all by ourselves.
We need our partner to help make us feel secure. Ask yourself if your actions are helping your partner feel more or less secure then do the things that help make them feel more secure.
If you were feeling insecure wouldn't you want your partner to come towards you and make you feel loved and special or would you want them to just say too bad it's your issue? You end up feeling isolated and even more insecure than before.
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